This is why I teach meditation on your own Self. I don’t teach meditation on your breath, not on your chakras, not on God, or Gods or Goddesses, not on success or happiness. I remember one woman came to Baba and asked for a husband. Baba told her to meditate on Self for happiness. So, she went to a different Guru and got…
— Gurudevi Nirmalananda
From Gurudevi’s full discourse “I Wanted to Know!“
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Thank you Gurudevi! I love this story whenever I hear it.. for me it means, meditate on your own Self and life will blossom forth in all it’s glory.. this has been my experience again and again.